You already have all the love and belonging you will need for the rest of your life time inside of you–right now.
We are born worthy and deserving of love–we are love.
Our self worth does not live in external things–it is something that is inside of us from the moment we open our lungs and take in air.
We forget this.
We experience moments as children and then create stories about our worthiness and if we are “enough”.
Then we manifest experiences to validate our beliefs we have formed on stories that are not truly real–because we are already love.
Love doesn’t go anywhere.
It’s inside of you.
Yet we create these “to-do” lists for self love.
Checklists and worthiness that will only be attained by accomplishing, completing, succeeding, doing.
Our need to “do” to achieve love isn’t real.
We go to school to get the piece of paper, we get the piece of paper to get a job so we can afford a house, we get a job and the house and the car and then go, “Phew, okay–I’ve done all the things, now I am READY for my life partner. Now I am ready for love and to be loved.”
You have been ready to be love and be loved since the moment your heart first started beating.
Love is a room in our house we don’t even know exists.
And then one day, maybe, we work on ourselves and we are strolling through our houses and a door pops up suddenly and we go, “Holy fuck! You mean all the love and belonging I will ever need is right here? And it’s been here ALL along? And I’ve been holding onto stories and experiences and beliefs that weren’t real? Holy fucking shit. Look at all this cool stuff in here I didn’t even know existed!”
Right now, Monday February 29, 2016, you no longer need to “do” anything to have love and belonging.
You are already that–your tank is full, and nothing can take away from that.
No one not loving you or accepting you will ever take away from your birthright for love and belonging.
You have the power and choice to leak it out and give it to other people, but no one can reach into your tank and take away your worthiness for love.
That is something only you have the power to do.
Fix those damn leaks if you have them.
When we realize we are all the love we will ever need, people can not show up or let us down, or say, “You’re not my person” and none of this will take away anything.
For we already belong to the most powerful person we can–ourselves.
Your tank cannot shrink, it can only get bigger and expand more.
You are love, stop looking for it.